resources
Langley doesn’t believe in gatekeeping resources for healing.
Here are some resources she recommends.
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IN PERSON COURSES
DIVORCECARE - 13 week faith-based program walking through divorce; found in churches across the country. Faith not required, but it is woven in heavily.
RETROUVAILLE - intensive weekend marriage program (Catholic based, but others have used). An excellent Hail Mary (pun intended) if you and your spouse have any hope left
FIND YOUR PURPOSE - for when the dust settles and you don’t know what your ‘next’ move might be. Fun Fact: Laura King’s class was the catalyst for this program!
READING LIST
NOT ALL OF THESE BOOKS WILL APPLY TO YOUR SITUATION. BEING ON MY READING LIST DOES NOT MEAN I ENDORSE 100% OF AN AUTHOR’S VIEWPOINTS. KNOWLEDGE IS POWER; DISCERNMENT IS A SUPER POWER.
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE BOOKS
How to Do The Work - Dr. Nicole LePera
The Body Keeps the Score - Bessel Van Der Kolk, MD (heavy and technical)
Codependent No More - Melody Beattie
ABUSE-RECOVERY BOOKS
Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare - Shahid Arabi (very technical but supportive)
INFIDELITY BOOKS
The State of Affairs : Rethinking Infidelity - Esther Perel
The Betrayal Bind - Michelle Mays
FAITH-BASED BOOKS
It’s Not Supposed to be This Way - Lysa Terkeurst
Good Boundaries and Goodbyes - Lisa Terkeurst
DATING BOOKS
Single. On Purpose. - John Kim
Falling in Love for All the Right Reasons - Dr Neil Clark Warren